May 13, 2014
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"Failed" Relationship
Someone said that they must go ponder their failure as they spoke about their recently ended relationship. I've never taken such accountability for a relationship ending, but surely I've done my wrongs in the relationship... we are human after all.
To collect the "should have" or the "this would have been a better action to take", may be good to do, especially written down on paper so the next relationship can benefit.
My part of the failure:
- Could have been more vocal with my intentions
- Could have had lengthier discussions about my wants and desires instead of mentioning once and going and and doing
- Share more intimacy, in bed and out
- Go on more dates
- Balance - support myself - less roller coaster
I don't like the blame game, but maybe I should give myself some constructive criticism.
